This is the 5th installment in a series by a Franklin County Ohio Dissolution Attorney about the benefits of dissolution. Virginia Cornwell is an Ohio State Bar Association Certified Family Relations Specialist. Approximately 100 attorneys in Ohio have received this honor. You can view other articles in the Dissolution in Ohio series by clicking any of the following links:
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1. Are you going to have one attorney, two attorneys or no attorneys? You cannot have one attorney represent both husband and wife in a dissolution. It is a conflict of interest. If an attorney represented two parties in a dissolution, divorce, annulment or legal separation, he or she would be subject to discipline for ethical violations. Attorneys know this or should know this. If you think both you and your spouse are being represented by the same attorney, think again. Ask yourself this – who signed a fee agreement with the Attorney? That person is the client. That is the ONLY person an attorney is representing. Attorneys generally try to be pretty clear about this, but unfortunately, sometimes people believe their spouse rather than what the attorney says. Even though an unrepresented party in an Ohio dissolution must sign an acknowledgement saying that the attorney represents only their spouse and not both parties, sometimes people believe that the acknowledgment is “just paperwork”. It’s not just paperwork, it’s real. If there is only one attorney involved and you did not sign a fee agreement with that attorney, then you do not have an attorney and your spouse is the only person getting legal advice about his or her best interest. You are entitled to represent yourself in a dissolution. Each spouse can have their own attorney, each spouse can choose not to get an attorney, or one spouse can hire an attorney, but in Ohio you cannot have one attorney representing both spouses in a dissolution, divorce, legal separation or annulment. For more information about deciding whether or not you need an attorney to handle your dissolution, see this article from our website: Packet of Forms vs. Getting a Lawyer
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2. Grounds for Dissolution. There must be grounds for dissolution, just like divorce. Generally, people agree to the “no-fault” ground of incompatibility. There are 8 grounds for ending a marriage in Ohio, but once parties start going down the blame path things generally start to disintegrate. To learn more about grounds for ending a marriage, see this article: Divorce Basics
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3. Is either spouse going to pay spousal support to the other? Spousal support is a touchy subject. Nobody likes being court ordered to pay spousal support. But when reaching agreement on this issue, the sensible approach is to look at what a judge would decide if the parties cannot agree. To learn more about spousal support, or alimony, in Ohio, see this article: Alimony (Spousal Support)
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4. If spousal support is going to be paid:
- How much spousal support will be paid per month?
- Have the parties planned for the tax effect of spousal support?
- How long will spousal support (or alimony) be paid?
- Under what conditions will spousal support stop?
- Death of the recipient only (payable by the estate)?
- Death of either party?
- Remarriage of the recipient?
- Cohabitation of the recipient?
- Expiration of the period of years?
- Will spousal support obligations be insured with a life insurance policy?
- If life insurance is to insure the obligations, who will pay for the life insurance?
- If the parties have no children and no child support is being paid, spousal support can be paid, but is not required to be paid, directly to the recipient. Will spousal support be paid through wage withholding or directly to the recipient?
- Is the amount of spousal support that will be received set out in a Prenuptial Agreement (aka Antenuptial Agreement, or “prenup”)?
- If a Prenuptial Agreement dictates how much spousal support will be paid, or how much spousal support will be paid, is that amount still fair in light of the parties’ current circumstances? (The keyword here is unconscionable – and whether the amount is unconscionable is determined based on the parties’ circumstances at the time the marriage ends, not the time the marriage begins).
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5. Health Insurance:
- If health insurance is provided through one spouse’s employer, are COBRA benefits available to allow the other spouse to keep their health insurance?
- If COBRA is available, how much does it cost?
- Is either spouse going to seek COBRA coverage? If so, who will pay for it?
- If COBRA coverage is not available, does the spouse who will be losing coverage have health insurance available through his or her employer?
- If private health insurance is necessary for the spouse losing coverage, how much does it cost?
- If the parties have children, who will provide health insurance for the children after the dissolution?
- What percentage of co-pays and other costs for the children’s medical care which are not covered by insurance will each parent pay?
- Are medical care expenses going to include dental, psychological, counseling and other expenses?
In addition to the other installments in the Dissolution in Ohio Series (see links at top of the page), you may also find the following topics, which relate to divorce, to be helpful.
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In Ohio if you want to end your marriage, there are three ways to do it: 
There are some obstacles with 
For example, if you are able to communicate with your spouse on issues regarding ending the marriage, but you just can’t find a middle ground on some points, 
If you decide to negotiate through attorneys, and want to be able to end your marriage through dissolution or uncontested divorce (reach a settlement in your divorce case), it’s important to keep your eye on the prize. 
Remember – YOU are the boss. If your attorney doesn’t have the same goals as you – reaching agreement on as many issues as possible, then it is up to YOU to put things back on track with your attorney or find a new attorney. It is unethical for an attorney to refuse to convey a settlement offer you want to make, or to withhold a settlement offer that was made to you. It is also unethical for your attorney to lie to you, or on your behalf. You should be in the front seat of your legal team, not the back seat.
Even if the husband, the wife and both attorneys approach everything with a winning attitude, sometimes the husband and wife can reach agreement on some issues, but not ALL issues. At this point, it’s important not to “throw the baby out with the bath water”. Rather than turn things into a “winner take all approach”, you should give STRONG consideration to writing a binding agreement as to the things you agree upon. Issues of property, debts and spousal support can be put into a 
It is possible and perfectly legal to file for Divorce, file an Agreed Entry regarding matters that are agreed, and litigate ONLY over the things which you cannot agree upon. Narrowing the scope of contested issues will save you money and time. Also, agreeing upon at least SOME issues tends to keep things moving in the right direction – a resolution which YOU decide for yourself, rather than a decision which a court imposes upon you. If, after filing for divorce, you are able to reach agreement upon the remaining issues, perhaps as a result of guidance by the Judge or Magistrate, then your divorce becomes an uncontested divorce, and your attorneys can arrange to have an uncontested divorce hearing. If your attorney won’t agree to such a meeting, consider having a meeting with your attorney discuss whether you and your attorney have the same goals and expectations.
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